Don’t expect others to see the world in the same way as you do, because we each have our own map of the world. We come from different backgrounds, different family systems and we have each had difference experiences. So when we expect others to see the world from our view we will be disappointed. The other cannot live up to our expectations. We made those rules about what we expect from them.
We then develop unrealistic expectations of them and how they should respond to us. This can only end in disappointment and often arguments.
So spend time together discovering more about their map, no one is wrong – just different.