Too often people ignore the problems in their relationship, but they have a gut feeling things aren’t right. Maybe their partner isn’t paying them the same attention, or perhaps they start working late. Whatever those feelings don’t ignore them – trust your instincts, and talk to your partner about them. Just don’t do it when you are having an argument. It’s better to deal with it when things are going ok because then you are more likely to be heard. When things are said in an argument or as a passing comment they are never received well.
Don’t brush them under the carpet because you feel things are going ok, or because you don’t want to rock the boat. That’s the best time of all to talk calmly to each other. It’s so much easier to fix things early on, rather than leaving them till the problems are beyond repair.